Gosh.. it has been so long that I’ve not updated my blog. Blame to the modern technology- smartphone J. Frankly I don’t remember when was the last time I touch my lappy as I am connected 24/7 to the internet thru my phone. So convenient ah.. sampai terabai blog ku..
Saturday, 26 February 2011
Sunday, 13 February 2011
Each anniversary finds us happier
You are my light--my moon, my star, my sun.
You show me what real love is all about,
You fill my life with pleasure, joy and fun.
As time goes by, our love grows stronger still.
You're the most amazing man I ever knew.
I prize our anniversaries because
Each year I fall in love again with you.
Poem by :Joanna Fuchs
Friday, 11 February 2011
Frankly all this kind of horror and ghost movies has never been in my list. Cerita zombie kampung pisang dulu pun I screamed when first time watched the hantu2! So most of the scene which I already expected the ghost to be appeared in Khurafat, I just covered my whole face. Hehehehhe..
To me, this is cerita hantu yang bermoral. It got message. It is not just a stupid typical malay ghost that I used to watch. Though there are still some illogical scenes – of course kalau cerita melayu sure ada but still it is a new phenomenon to the industry. This is the first horror movie directed by Shamsul Yusof. Thumbs up.
KHURAFAT means kepercayaan karut atau tahyul. Believe it or not in nowadays modern era, there are still people especially Malays that believe in black magic, jin, saka or bomoh. They believe that all of these can help, cure or fulfill whatever they wish.
This bunch of people sometimes can be very obsessed and believe so much in whatever said or predicted by bomoh. They believe it so much till they start accusing friends, neighbor, relatives or even family. They believe it so much that they can break the relationship they have. Sadly and very sad this is actually happen.
I might not be the right one or alim person to say more about this but doing all these are just against our religion.
Segala amalan dan kepercayaan yang tidak berdasarkan kepada sumber-sumber yang asal seperti al-Qur'an, al-Hadis, Ijma' dan Qiyas adalah ditolak oleh Islam. Sabda Rasulullah:
من أحدث فى أمرنا هذا ما ليس منه فهو رد
Dan janganlah menyembah atau memuja yang lain dari Allah, yang tidak dapat mendatangkan manfaat kepadamu dan juga tidak dapat memberi mudharat kepadamu. Sekiranya engkau mengerjakan yang demikian maka jadilah engkau orang-orang yang berlaku zalim (terhadap diri sendiri dengan perbuatan syirik itu)
أوسحر أو سحر له
إن الرقى والتمائم والتولة شرك
من علق تميمة فقد أشرك
Monday, 7 February 2011
Sunday, 6 February 2011
As Nabila and Hakeem grow up they learn to be more responsible and thoughtful. They learn to love and respect each other. They are just like other kids too – had their fight, disagree but it would normally won’t be long. They will go back to each other as in the family they are the last two who are at the same age group.
Many people sometimes mistaken that they are twins, especially when they were babies which I wonder why as they don’t ever look alike. They have different personalities which why they always have great things and ideas to do.
Nabila.. as a sister, as a ‘matured’ sister always has concern towards her brother, Hakeem. I guess she is willing to do anything for him though sometimes she don't show it. As for Hakeem all I can say the spoil one, always need attention and attention.
This school holiday, both of them have lots of homework to do. Nabila has started planning and doing it from the day one. As for Hakeem, he will do it when he feels he wants to do it. But when he started doing it, he will be very serious and determine. Then he will say to me – Mommy.. it’s not that difficult and I know I can do it.
Nabila too shares the worried. Each time when she looks at Hakeem’s handwriting she would commented and helped it out. She would teach Hakeem the correct way how to write. She would tell the correct way how they learn at school. When come to this, Hakeem would normally cooperate and listen to his sister.
When I gave birth to Hakeem, Nabila was 15 months. I still remember that my mak bidan asked Nabila to step on Hakeem’s placenta. This was done so Hakeem tak melawan cakap kakak dia and selalu hormat kakak dia. Mak bidan also asked me to keep their tali pusat together in one bottle so that both of them will be buddies forever.
Either to believe it or not, I still pray that both of them will have a good relationships forever and ever.
Friday, 4 February 2011
Manusia ni kan.. kekadang jahat sangat… They just cannot stand seeing others happy or better than them. Be it either your relatives, friends or good friends people would do anything to satisfy themselves. I sometimes don’t understand. Why and what do they get out of this?
Are they happy when they see a person who used to be close to their heart suffering? Don’t they feel at least bit of guilty that the person that they were trying to bring down was once helped or had safe them?
In my whole thru life, I learned lots thru joy and pain. The painful experienced would always be a lesson to me. How sometimes I trusted a person so much, they betrayed me. How sometimes I being sincere to a person, they lied and being dishonest to me. How sometimes I am generous to a person and they being selfish back to me.
It is truly unfair when come to think of it but that’s the fact. Though it is very hard and pain for me to endure, I just have to face and swallow it. I always believe that things happen for reasons. No matter how I try avoiding it, it will still happen. And also no matter how people try to stop me from getting it, if it is meant to be for me, it will be mine.
Probably sometimes I just have to learn to be selfish. To be selfish so that people won’t simply take advantage on me, to be selfish to save my dignity. To be cruel so that people know that I know how to protect myself.
I am not trying to be a hero or to prove myself that I am always right. I am just a normal human being that wants to leave in peace and harmony. As much as other people want to love and protect their family not to be hurt, so am I.
After sometimes I guess I am just tired of talking and fighting. I am tired of regretting and thinking of what happened. I will non-stop pray to Allah the He will protect me and my family.
Sesungguhnya Allah itu amat mengetahui apa yang tersirat dan tersurat dihati kita.