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Gosh.. it has been so long that I’ve not updated my blog. Blame to the modern technology- smartphone J. Frankly I don’t remember when was the last time I touch my lappy as I am connected 24/7 to the internet thru my phone. So convenient ah.. sampai terabai blog ku..

Anyway hubby was home back for a short holiday. In his 10 days holidays our activities were filled up with makan,makan and makan.. Macam2 dia mengidam nak makan itu ini…

On the weekend we went back to Malacca and had the famous ikan bakar but this time we went to Alai. It was not bad though as it was recommended by our relatives.

Then back in KL, my aunty from Kedah came to KL and we went to meet up and lepak2.. Well.. makan again…

A couple days before hubby ended his holiday only I had the opportunity to cook for him. Yes.. finally dinner at home! We also had our brothers around to join the dinner.

Now hubby has gone back and safely arrived in Oman. Although it was a short time for him to be here, me and the kids especially treasure the time spending together. We already miss you.. sob sob..

Happy Anniversary

Happy Anniversary to my dearest hubby. I love you more and more each day. May Allay bless our marriage and our family.

Each anniversary finds us happier
You are my light--my moon, my star, my sun.

You show me what real love is all about,
You fill my life with pleasure, joy and fun.

As time goes by, our love grows stronger still.
You're the most amazing man I ever knew.

I prize our anniversaries because

Each year I fall in love again with you.

Poem by :Joanna Fuchs

KHURAFAT: Perjanjian Syaitan

I watched Khurafat movie just now. What drag me to watch was because of the good reviews I read about the movie. Some more the collections are more than 5millions. After glued to my sit for one half hour, my personal review – Khurafat was not bad.

Frankly all this kind of horror and ghost movies has never been in my list. Cerita zombie kampung pisang dulu pun I screamed when first time watched the hantu2! So most of the scene which I already expected the ghost to be appeared in Khurafat, I just covered my whole face. Hehehehhe..

To me, this is cerita hantu yang bermoral. It got message. It is not just a stupid typical malay ghost that I used to watch. Though there are still some illogical scenes – of course kalau cerita melayu sure ada but still it is a new phenomenon to the industry. This is the first horror movie directed by Shamsul Yusof. Thumbs up.

KHURAFAT means kepercayaan karut atau tahyul. Believe it or not in nowadays modern era, there are still people especially Malays that believe in black magic, jin, saka or bomoh. They believe that all of these can help, cure or fulfill whatever they wish.

This bunch of people sometimes can be very obsessed and believe so much in whatever said or predicted by bomoh. They believe it so much till they start accusing friends, neighbor, relatives or even family. They believe it so much that they can break the relationship they have. Sadly and very sad this is actually happen.

I might not be the right one or alim person to say more about this but doing all these are just against our religion.

Renung-renungkan lah..

Segala amalan dan kepercayaan yang tidak berdasarkan kepada sumber-sumber yang asal seperti al-Qur'an, al-Hadis, Ijma' dan Qiyas adalah ditolak oleh Islam. Sabda Rasulullah:

من أحدث فى أمرنا هذا ما ليس منه فهو رد

Maksudnya: Barangsiapa mengada-adakan di dalam agama kami sesuatu yang tidak ada di dalamnya, maka yang dikerjakannya itu adalah tertolak.

Percaya kepada benda-benda yang dijadikan keramat seperti pokok, kubur, telaga dan sebagainya, serta memuja, memohon pertolongan dan melepaskan nazar pada benda-benda berkenaan dan percaya ianya mempunyai kuasa selain dari Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, adalah membawa kepada syirik dan bertentangan dengan kepercayaan tauhid kepada Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.

ولا تدع من دون الله ما لا ينفعك ولا يضرك فان فعلت فانك إذا من الظلمين

Dan janganlah menyembah atau memuja yang lain dari Allah, yang tidak dapat mendatangkan manfaat kepadamu dan juga tidak dapat memberi mudharat kepadamu. Sekiranya engkau mengerjakan yang demikian maka jadilah engkau orang-orang yang berlaku zalim (terhadap diri sendiri dengan perbuatan syirik itu)

أوسحر أو سحر له

Bukan dari golongan kami sesiapa yang merasa sial atau meminta diramalkan kesialannya atau merenung nasib atau minta ditenungkan atau mensihirkan atau meminta disihirkan.

Sabda Rasulullah:

إن الرقى والتمائم والتولة شرك

Sesungguhnya jampi mentera, tangkal dan guna-guna itu syirik.

من علق تميمة فقد أشرك

Sesiapa yang memakai tangkal, maka ia telah melakukan kesyirikan.

Waalahualam..

Kitties from Tiara

Last night Tiara gave birth to two little cuties kittens. Tiara is not even a year old but has to be a mom now. Kesian kan... A week ago we already noticed she was wondered around the house looking for hidden spot. The spot probably a place where she wanted to give birth for the babies.

So we prepared for one her and last night was the history. Everybody in the house was very excited. There are two kittens - one is so black and the other one is in light gray color. Names are not given yet as sex are still unidentifies. :)

Currently Tiara is under quarantine as we don't want other two male cats yg tak henti ngiaw ngiaw want to be close to her and the babies. Probably in a few weeks time, I will bring Tiara and babies to the VET. Meanwhile I just hope that the babies will survive.

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When They Are Together

As Nabila and Hakeem grow up they learn to be more responsible and thoughtful. They learn to love and respect each other. They are just like other kids too – had their fight, disagree but it would normally won’t be long. They will go back to each other as in the family they are the last two who are at the same age group.

Many people sometimes mistaken that they are twins, especially when they were babies which I wonder why as they don’t ever look alike. They have different personalities which why they always have great things and ideas to do.

Nabila.. as a sister, as a ‘matured’ sister always has concern towards her brother, Hakeem. I guess she is willing to do anything for him though sometimes she don't show it. As for Hakeem all I can say the spoil one, always need attention and attention.

This school holiday, both of them have lots of homework to do. Nabila has started planning and doing it from the day one. As for Hakeem, he will do it when he feels he wants to do it. But when he started doing it, he will be very serious and determine. Then he will say to me – Mommy.. it’s not that difficult and I know I can do it.

During this holiday also I am focusing more on Hakeem’s handwriting. I bought some books for him to practice. I am quite worried as he is still has untidy handwriting and sometimes got confused between capital and small letters.

Nabila too shares the worried. Each time when she looks at Hakeem’s handwriting she would commented and helped it out. She would teach Hakeem the correct way how to write. She would tell the correct way how they learn at school. When come to this, Hakeem would normally cooperate and listen to his sister.

When I gave birth to Hakeem, Nabila was 15 months. I still remember that my mak bidan asked Nabila to step on Hakeem’s placenta. This was done so Hakeem tak melawan cakap kakak dia and selalu hormat kakak dia. Mak bidan also asked me to keep their tali pusat together in one bottle so that both of them will be buddies forever.

Either to believe it or not, I still pray that both of them will have a good relationships forever and ever.

The Sorrow

Manusia ni kan.. kekadang jahat sangat… They just cannot stand seeing others happy or better than them. Be it either your relatives, friends or good friends people would do anything to satisfy themselves. I sometimes don’t understand. Why and what do they get out of this?

Are they happy when they see a person who used to be close to their heart suffering? Don’t they feel at least bit of guilty that the person that they were trying to bring down was once helped or had safe them?

In my whole thru life, I learned lots thru joy and pain. The painful experienced would always be a lesson to me. How sometimes I trusted a person so much, they betrayed me. How sometimes I being sincere to a person, they lied and being dishonest to me. How sometimes I am generous to a person and they being selfish back to me.

It is truly unfair when come to think of it but that’s the fact. Though it is very hard and pain for me to endure, I just have to face and swallow it. I always believe that things happen for reasons. No matter how I try avoiding it, it will still happen. And also no matter how people try to stop me from getting it, if it is meant to be for me, it will be mine.

Probably sometimes I just have to learn to be selfish. To be selfish so that people won’t simply take advantage on me, to be selfish to save my dignity. To be cruel so that people know that I know how to protect myself.

I am not trying to be a hero or to prove myself that I am always right. I am just a normal human being that wants to leave in peace and harmony. As much as other people want to love and protect their family not to be hurt, so am I.

After sometimes I guess I am just tired of talking and fighting. I am tired of regretting and thinking of what happened. I will non-stop pray to Allah the He will protect me and my family.

Sesungguhnya Allah itu amat mengetahui apa yang tersirat dan tersurat dihati kita.